Cisgender WIfe · FFS · Pink Fog · Surgery · Transgender

Expansion on the Idea of the ‘Pink Fog’

I recognize I have released this post much later than anticipated. The reason for this is that on August 21st a car rear ended me when I was stopped at a light. The impact of the collision centered on my lower back and pelvis and moved these bones out of alignment. My chiropractor continues to… Continue reading Expansion on the Idea of the ‘Pink Fog’

Cost · Healthcare · Informed Consent · LGBTQ+ · Patient Education · Stress · Surgery

Updated Suggestions for Surviving Gender-Affirming Surgery

I had originally planned for this post to continue with the previous discussion of the Pink Fog. However, Marcie had a surgical repair of her right rotator cuff last Thursday. From that experience  l learned a few things that may be of value before your spouse has any type of surgery. These fresh thoughts seemed… Continue reading Updated Suggestions for Surviving Gender-Affirming Surgery

Cisgender WIfe · Coming Out · Gender Identity

The Pink Fog

“The Pink Fog” was one of the first words/phrases I heard when examining online resources referencing the experience of being trans gender. The overarching impact of the Pink Fog is an impairment in one’s decision making capability. The most commonly mentioned behavior was that of shopping sprees without boundaries, regardless of financial or other considerations.… Continue reading The Pink Fog

Acceptance · Cisgender WIfe

Intermission

The author reflects on their evolving acceptance of Marcie, a trans woman and their wife, over nearly five years. Initially unsure, the author now feels peace and understanding in their relationship, realizing that acceptance takes time. They aim to share their journey to encourage others facing similar transitions, emphasizing hope and resilience.

FFS · Stress · Surgery · Transitioning · Uncategorized

Appearance after FFS (2)

This post is a follow up to my first one on Appearance after Facial Feminization Surgery. This one  focuses on my wife’s second surgery, the procedures done on her lower face included modifications to her jaw and chin, as well as cheek implants. I began to write this six weeks after her surgery and finished… Continue reading Appearance after FFS (2)