Websites
Crose, A. (2016, November 17). How my sexuality changed after my husband became my wife, HuffPost, https://www.huffpost.com/entry/how-my-sexuality-changed-after-my-husband-became-my_b_582e1c74e4b08c963e343c7e
GLAAD (2022a, February 28). GLAAD Media Reference Guide, 11th edition. https://www.glaad.org/reference
Heminsley, A. (2021, January 2). ‘From now on, I was in an LGBTQ+ family’ my husband came out as trans while I was on maternity leave. https://www.theguardian.com/society/2021/jan/02/from-now-on-i-was-in-an-lgbtq-family-my-husband-came-out-as-trans-while-i-was-on-maternity-leave
Human Rights Campaign Foundation. (2022). Being an LGBTQ+ ally, https://reports.hrc.org/being-an-lgbtq-ally
James, S. D. (2011, August 11). Transgender love: When husband becomes wife. ABC News. https://abcnews.go.com/Health/transgender-love-husband-transitions-wife/story?id=14280850
Marano, H. E. (2021, June 30). 10 tips for couples during gender transition, https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fearless-you/202106/10-tips-couples-during-gender-transition
Morris, A. (2015, September 22). My husband is now my wife: Trans women’s wives on their own dramatic transformations, The Cut, https://www.thecut.com/2015/09/trans-wives-transitioning.html
PFLAG National. (2020). The guide to being a trans ally. PFLAG National Office.
Tri-Ess (Society for the Second Self). (n.d.). Wives’ and crossdressers’ bill of rights. https://triess.wildapricot.org/Wives-and-GFs-Bill-of-Rights
Rowello, L. (2020, June 17). I was a straight woman whose spouse came out as trans. It didn’t change a thing, The Washington Post, https://www.washingtonpost.com/outlook/2020/06/17/im-straight-woman-whose-spouse-came-out-trans-it-didnt-change-thing/
Volpe, M. A. (2022, August 4). ‘My husband is now my wife’: Couple speak on marriage after transition, Newsweek, https://www.newsweek.com/lgbtq-couple-relationship-husband-transgender-1729705
YouTube Videos
Gay, V. (2020, April 29) Interview with Deb from The Crossdresser’s Wife
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A39HKCe5nJ0
Lovekiss, S. (Present)
https://www.youtube.com/@SydneyLovekiss-qc2qj
Noir, J. (2018, February 12) How Did Your Wife React?
https://www.juliettenoir.uk/post/how-did-your-wife-react-1
Noir, J. (2019a, November 5). Answering your questions with Mrs. Noir. Round 2! Retrieved May 31, 2021, from YouTube,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXtRA3O-YyM
Noir, J. (2019b, June 16). Serious Sunday – My wife answers your questions. YouTube. Retrieved May 31, 2021, from YouTube,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oofvc0RzTFo
Blogs
McKnight, H. (2019, May 13). Ask Hannah’s wife.
https://hannahmcknight.org
McKnight, H. (2022a, February 23) Change your gender, change your world, Part 1 En Femme.
https://enfemmestyle.com/blogs/learning-center/change-your-gender-change-your-world-part-1
McKnight, H. (2022b, March 15). Change your gender, change your world, Part 2. En Femme.
https://enfemmestyle.com/blogs/learning-center/change-your-gender-change-your-world-part-2
McKnight, H. (2022c, March 29). Change your gender, change your world, Part 3. En Femme.
https://enfemmestyle.com/blogs/learning-center/change-your-gender-change-your-world-part-3
Books: Wife/Partner’s Perspective
Boyd, H. (2003). My husband Betty: Love, sex, and life with a crossdressers. Seal Press.
Boyd, H. (2007). She’s not the man I married: My life with a transgender husband. Seal Press.
Erhardt, V. (2007). Head over heels: Wives who stay with cross-dressers and transsexuals. Routledge, Taylor. & Francis Group.
Fabian, H. F. (2014). My husband’s a woman now. Virtualbookworm.com.The Haworth Press, Inc.
Johnson, P. A. (2023). Ever-expansive spirit of God: Hope for all who feel left out. ACTA Publications.
Knox, A. J. (2019). Love Lives Here. Penguin, Random House, Viking.
Books of Significance to Me
Boylan, J. (2013). She’s not there: A life in two genders. Broadway Paperbacks.
Davis, C. O. (2021). The Queens’ English, Clarkson Potter/Publishers.
Gigl, Robyn (2021) By Way of Sorrow, Kensington Publishing Corp.
Johnson, J. & Garrison, B (Eds). (2015) Partners of Trans People on Intimacy, Challenge and Resilience, Transgress Press.
Nutt, A. E. (2016) Becoming Nicole, Random House
Williams, Paula Stone (2021) As a Woman: What I Learned about Power, Sex, and the Patriarchy after I Transitioned, ATRIA Press
This list is by no means all inclusive. Please click here to suggest additional resources
Cheryl B Thompson 